Gripe session - H leased an apartment today and is moving right across the street from my work. Literally my office is all windows in the front and I can plainly see the parking lot and street from my desk. I'm going to see him drive by all the time! Or I won't see him drive by and I'll wonder where he is...
He texts a pic of the pool and says to come over & swim with the girls. This's just a whole lot of awkward. It's really difficult to detach & work on no expectations. He thinks I've 'moved on'. But he's been living 45 min away and now is going to be in my face. A whole different situation.
And I'm understanding the LBS where there spouse doesn't move out! Wow that must be so hard. I'm feeling the panic already and the close contact will just be starting. In 2 weeks.
On a side note, I've read a lot about the mlc teenager emotions and I personally haven't seen it yet. But I don't spend much time with H. d18 reports that he acted a fool in front of her today. H made inappropriate comments about her behind in a pair of skinny jeans, commenting on her 'trunk'. She's a tiny girl and he's always been a nurturing, loving father. Really bizarre. Then he called a car on the road 'pxxnis'. And d18 says was trying to speak like a teen. It's another strange observation.
Positives: H has been absent from dds lives for the past year. This will be an opportunity for him to reconnect with them on a new level. It will also be an opportunity for me to continue to show positive changes and a peaceful lifestyle. It's just another thing to adjust to.
