kml, my attorney will definitely get everything legalized. She sent a letter today informing opposing counsel that I intend to move and when. She stated that I want full custody, but that I'll return with the boys for periodic visitation. I will have to give him at least a percentage of the equity, but I no longer care. I just need enough to buy and furnish a new home. I'll get that much without fighting for it.
Xh can file a motion to try and stop my move, but he won't win. It will delay my plans, but I can deal with it. He brought all of this on himself. His kids will now live several states away. I hope the tramp he's with is worth it.