Kelela,

This is not, to my knowledge, a "Christian" website. Or at the least, not a "Christian only" forum. I am sorry if you feel some on here bashed your faith. Nobody has the right to judge how you choose to worship. That is DEFINITELY NOT what should be happening on DB.

Church can be a wonderful thing. It also can be not-so-great. I am sorry you had a bad experience. One thing church can serve as is a place of support, and there is no cost involved, so it may be something for you to consider. But you can certainly "believe in him on my own", and nobody has the right to tell you other wise. Judge not, that ye be not judged. Mathew 7:1

I too have taken breaks from DB and understand if you feel you need one. Dealing with the heartache of a broken marriage is overwhelming. But please don't give up on DB altogether. It can be a source of support and community.

One last thing. In the bottom right hand corner of each post there is a "Notify" button. If you click that, the forum administrators are notified that the post is inappropriate. I encourage you to take a stand for yourself Kelela. I know doing so would be 180 for you.

smile I am hoping to hear from you again soon. ~~ Peace ~~

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.