wife hardends heart-2

[planet]

W said i have been spending a little more lately and i attribute them to my GAL activities. This morning W has decided to split all household expenses. She carefully itemized everything. We have been paying our monthly bills collectively which means she pays more.
Our monthly expenses is really high and my income could cover them but that means i'm left with just lunch money.
W have been paying for out family's health insurance and i estimate it costs as much as 1/4 of her yearly income which is really crazy. W does have her reasons.
I guess sorting out finances is right. My employer have force us to take a substantial pay-cut starting next month. GAL will be a big problem from now on. A friend and i have been planning a start-up for few months and this could be my ticket out.
W did ask me to find a better paying job but i just found just too much comfort in the current one. About a year ago before the BD, i did try to look for a new job but none turn up interesting. That's also the reason i wanted to start a new business. Right now i don't even have savings to continue.