Sorry to hear sthelen. ((((hugs))))

Good advice from cat04 above!
I think it is good that he is willing to do the counseling with you.. hopefully you can figure out some of the issues, and start working on re-building.

Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you, and hope you are doing ok.

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.