Today I need help. I really want to make this right and do want to save my marriage. I know that she should be the one to apologize and reach out and that I will only hurt things. I know I am not suppose to do anything, but what do I do. We don't talk, I know she is "in the fog."

Is there anything I can do? I know I shouldn't be the one to initiate contact and that she isn't interested right now, but what if she might be but is too stubborn to call? What if she is thinking about me or us? What if there are other factors or something I can do?

Do I just move on and accept that there is nothing that can be done? Do I contact her? Any help would be appreciated.

Thanks.

together 7+yrs
Married 3
Me 33
W 33
no kids
BD 9/12
MC 9/12
W leaves MC 10/12
W moves out 11/12
Divorce 2/13
W moves 5/13
NC 05/13
D final 8/13