You know Linda they probably won't remember the bulk of this either. I have already noticed that h doesn't remember some of the things he says. But you're right, how can someone so intelligent be so stupid? Their brain is mush. But they do have to figure it out by themselves. Just like our little kids and teenagers. I always wanted to spare my kids something bad happening to them but most of the time they had to learn by mistakes.

I don't really have evidence he is still seeing OW but just a "feeling". I could totally be wrong and I know they say that you shouldn't let your mind wander but just the fact that he is never here makes me think that. His texts haven't been mean lately so that's good. Ever since I told him knock it off.

I really thought h was further along than the anger stage. He seems to realize that he has hurt a bunch of people but then kind of slipped back. You know the 2 steps forward and 3 steps back deal.

He is taking the girls to the lake this weekend so I hope maybe it opens his eyes a bit. I will continue being nice but not let him walk all over me.

You do the same. Just think positive.

M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out