Raine, why are you so convinced that he is seeing OW2? He really does seem like he is coming around. I'm sure that he doesn't realize the triggers, just like he said. They don't remember the things that they have done in the past.
It is interesting that you think my h is being mean to me because he is in pain. He thought that I would go off on him when I was mad to ruin his day so he would not be happy either. That wasn't it at all. I did it because he would tell the kids something then leave and leave me holding the bag with them. So you may be right there. But, he probably doesn't even remember saying that to our friend.
How long is h going to be away on his business trip? Don't think the worst. Remember what they say, it is never the way we think it is so don't let your mind wander.
M 48 H 50 M 25 T 27 D 20,18,15 6/11 H filed 3/12 H dropped 4/12 H moved out