MrBond, I acknowledged that I was wrong im many ways back then, and my 'new' me has no problem admitting it.
I was wrong on many fronts, as I suspect we all are when we arrive here. I will update my thread soon so we can chat and I can get some more.insight from you, tallula, gabbysmom and all the other vets who help us all.
but on to helping BC, I think it may be helpful to explore low T as a possible solution to some of his 'ailments'.
Mrnond and Accuray, you have both written some awesome posts on this thread. There is a wealth of info here, and should be mandatory reading for ALL lbs husbands.
Another point I liked and agree with one hundred percent,(and its what I am working on and recommend BC works on) is the point about being attractive to YOURSELF before you can be attractive to your spouse.
GAL and PMA and the DB stuff is great, but as a man if you find it is exceptionally difficult to get started, I would recommend ecploring your T levels.
T in men seems to dictate a lot of things, and can really hinder your efforts.
Again I am not an expert, these are just my findings and what seems to be helping me a great deal, with beung happy with myself.
BC, keep posting and.updating us. We are here for you. You have some POWERFULLY insightful folks following your thread. Hear them, let it sink in, and keep moving forward!
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017