Huh, chattiest email ever from H. I wrote a reply, erased, rewrote, and deleted. Leaned toward "thanks for the info, good luck with everything" but decided to sit on it to see if something more substantive came to mind.

"I am moving out of [friend's] house and into a townhouse that has a room to rent in Reston as of August 1. The person renting the room works for the government where I work so I know he is not crazy, in debt or has a criminal record.

I will most likely be changing employers in Sept. I'm not sure what is happening at work with sequestration so I have to do whatever it takes to stay employed and not have to take a pay cut. In this case I think it means changing employers."

So (1) I can finally forward his mail, (2) I guess he's thinking of the kids because otherwise I don't know why he'd have thought I'd need to know his roommate's background check, (3) he's been worrying about his job security forever so that's not news; glad he's taking some action to increase his comfort level. Wonder if he's looking locally; he has talked before of going to colorado or japan.

I think it's funny to compare his email to some of the exchanges other people in DB have. Yes, I married a robot.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.