So AD, I popped in there because Betsey could also have been describing my H and I've always seen similarities in your H and mine in the P/A dept. I'm of the opinion that my H is waiting for me to do the work ending our marriage, step in and "git'er" done, which has always been my role.

Reading that post helped bring some more things into perspective.

Oh and my IC, who only knows H through my voice, once wondered if my H didn't see his struggle with his controlling father in his R with me. (insert ScoobyDoo face here)


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss