Christine - I am with you on this - I still feel similar feelings - fear, anxiety and the whole range of emotions. At least for me I have decided that for the time being I will stay happy that we are togther, heading forward and healing. In the future, I expect you (and me/us) will need to sit down together and figure out what originally contributed to the problems so they can be fixed and recognized should it occur again. I almost feel that until that occurs, we will feel anxious at times but I am sure it gets less dramatic as time goes on.
When you figure it out, let me know Of course, IMHO, as much physical contact would help to lessen the anxiety