Funny, my W also stopped going to church when we moved up to the country (2.5 years ago). During the last 9 months or so of S, she hasn't visited a church or even spoken to the chaplain at her school. Me, I started to go to church (was an atheist) as a way of feeling relaxed and calm. It is just another puzzle piece to their life puzzle. Again it is probably the guilt of what they are doing that stops them from the church and their faith. Actually I just remembered, my W, has a big "Faith" tattooed on her lower back. Faith in what I don't know. Faith in marriage, nope, didn't want to work on it. Faith in her God, nope doesn't seem like it. Faith in what?
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.