I would also recommend doing your best not to react or respond to her venomous comments about the type of place you live or how the kids are with her or without you. Really ignore it. She doesn't sound like someone you can convince of your side right now.
As soon as I started to reply without emotion it became fairly easy. What she says to me doesn't matter. What I say matters.
Originally Posted By: adinva
Just be quietly firm and confident that your children need their mom and their dad and you are going to step up as much as necessary to see them through this transition. That doesn't require her to like it, or like you, use your solicitor to draw up an agreement you can live with and keep your interactions with W as businesslike as possible.
Thats the plan, just hope it doesn't take too long.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
