My H is the same, he turned his back on the Lord as well. It is said that if the WAS leaves the family home, then the devil has a hand in it. The devil is delighted when the family home has split up, he has achieved some kind of victory. God now has to put it right again, but in his own time so we can have the best outcome. He has to do things in order you see. This is what I truly believe smile
You should pray for your W and ask God to soften her heart and to bring her back to God. Although we all have free will, there are ways around this smile You can ask God to show her the error of her ways and fight the devil off.
The devil has tried to get to me a few times this week by giving up with my H. I couldn't sleep for a couple of nights, things going round in my head. Luckily though my turmoil is over for now smile There's a Christian website that I go to called marriages rejoice. You can also sign up for their daily email which is really encouraging.
There's also a book that's a good read called hope for the separated. It's written by the same author that wrote the love languages.
I think I've go on too much now, so I'll stop there smile


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!