One giant leap forward! - Part 2

[cbtdad]

T! Way to keep your cool. Say as little as possible, continue PMA.
Don't let her bring you to her level. She is acting out because she has alway had control. You are standing up and that is awesome. As a wise man told me before. If you are angry you care. The opposite of love is indifference.
She is clearly upset and its because you are not letting her control everything. It will get worse before it gets better. But I think what you are doing is the only way to get your W to understand that her behavior is not acceptable. I'm assuming the way she is behaving is not the W you want to be married to?
The only thing that I would be concern about is her drinking. From what I've read it doesn't seem like she can go that long without it and she had had them a while.
Does this concern you? Make sure you are documenting everything