Right now he is so full of anger that he can't see straight. How did you act when you were dating each other? That's what attracted him to you in the first place. Find that person again and work on it. Right now, take the time to work on you and he will notice. I understand right now you are hurting and you cant think straight but pull yourself up. Be that strong woman and he will see it. Don't give up on yourself and your daughter. Take this time to discover who you are and what you really want.