This the whole conversation so it's not broken up from the old thread:
T1000: Hi,
Just checking it's OK to pick the kids up at 3 tomorrow, could you let me know?
In regards to not using solicitors and arranging things ourselves. I want to see if we can agree on a co-parenting/visitation schedule before we go any further.
Wife: You haven't seen your kids in two week, never once asked about them and only now you reply! Never knew you wanted to see the kids this weekend since you've pretty much vanished off the face of the earth....shows just how great a Dad you really are!! And I'll tell you this Mark, these boys have never been so great or peaceful in months the way they have been in the two whole weeks they have stayed with me and not had to travel all that way to that [censored] hole!
You never got back to me about us sorting out the divorce so I told my solicitor just to go ahead with the paperwork. The offer was there and like the selfish bastard you are, you're going to be the one who loses out!
T1000: If you want to go through solicitors that is fine with me.
I will be there around 15:00 tomorrow.
Wife: You've not gave a [censored] about them boys in the last two weeks. You want to see them them contact me through your solicitor as I've already made plans for the weekend with them. I had no idea you wanted to see them. Less than 24 hours notice is not enough time!
T1000: I have the kids every week on a Friday unless there is a change of plan.
One change of plan was you having them last weekend.
Nothing has been arranged about changing it this weekend.
Wife: Yes up until lately you did have the boys at weekends but as you knew things were changing. I never knew you wanted to see them this weekend. I can not just assume you want to see them as you have not once contacted me and like I said, less than 24 hours is not enough notice.
T1000: It has been a long standing weekly occurrence that I have the kids at the weekends. You have never asked for any notice in the last 12 months. You never contacted me about changing the visitation for this weekend.
I don't want to argue the same point again and again. The kids have a right to see me. They didn't get to see me last weekend because you wanted them.
You and I have things we need to sort out. Lets not get the kids involved if we can help it.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
