To little Too late

[2little2late]

Well here is the kicker. My wife can be very vague sometimes. She has never come straight out and said "I Want A Divorce". She has said that she is not in love with me. She has said that she wants to separate but since I am working out of town except weekends, so we really aren't. Considering how serious I feel she is since I have done all the trying to convince her to think my way and in the end she said that she is done trying and doesn't want to work on our marriage. she wants to live life before it is too late.

My question is... should I assume she is serious and confirm that this is what we are doing or should I not ask and do nothing but do "Sandi2's" 37 rules.