I do love my H, but my feelings have changed too. He is not the same man I married.
Ditto, I now know exactly what that ILYBINILWY sentiment feels like!
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Life is too short to waste and although I don't think for a second any of us here are wasting life by standing for our marriages, I think each of us has to determine at what point we are ready to move forward on the path we are already on.
Well said
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I am scared of the road ahead, but hey, there could be really really great things ahead and I'd never know if I didn't start moving toward them.
I have a few friends that have been through the WAS thing and from early on they kept telling me that eventually I would be HAPPIER than before and that GREATER things were in my future than I realized. That was very hard to believe early on, I really thought the best I could hope for without W was just to exist, to barely scrape by. But they were right, I already live a more fulfilling life than I have in years, even well before BD.
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AS, maybe we'll meet someday down the road...I admire you for all the help you've given to everyone here and your own journey parallels mine in many ways. And, hey, I'm all for a man who has taken the journey of personal growth & has gotten ripped in the process!!!
LOL! Thank you, and yes, that would be awesome to meet Speaking of parallel journeys, our BD's were only 4 days apart, how crazy is that?
