Yup DMR, it sure hurts when the person you love the most in the world is in so much emotional pain, and chooses to blame it all on your. And there is not a darned thing you can do about it, trying to point out the truth only makes them hate you worse.

You are doing a great job working on yourself, I hope it all works out for you and W. I'm sure she'll notice all the changes!!

I just noticed you are in NY. I live on Long Island, how about you?

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17