"Yes, she'll spend some time with me, but absolutely refuses to have fun while doing it. Going out with friends is WAY more fun. She even makes sure to not laugh at my jokes, even though others we are with are doing so."
Doesn't this just svck SO much FY? I'm sorry you are going thru this, it must hurt you. My H doesn't have fun with ANYONE, except maybe on skype with the Tramp, but he definitely makes sure to ignore me, and sometimes glares at me, if he is with a group of other people. Even if I was there first. I miss him so much.
I hope your W does not take up with an OM, real or imaginary. I read somewhere (DR maybe?) that an EA can take place between two people of the same gender, an imaginary friend, an online friend, almost anyone. But I don't think every one who goes thru MLC ends up with another person, some end up with cars, new wardrobes, etc. Cadet's explanation makes sense.
PS Do you think I could get my H to trade in the Russian Tramp for a trashy novel about sexy Russian spies?
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17