Keep doing this "letter" writing...I understand, it helped(s) me a lot. But make sure to delete and empty the deleted items so that they aren't discovered..if W saw them somehow it would be a TON of pressure I would imagine. And pressure isn't good right now.

I have basically had to watch similar with my boys, just be there for them, YOU are their rock right now...explain things best you can without blame on W. It sVcks, but is necessary.

Something that W emailed to me that S3 had written for a school assignment:

"My Dad is like an owl, he is wise, funny, and will do anything for the family"

If/when W gets through this, you will be seen as a hero by your kids, regardless of the outcome. They are smart, they will figure it out, or have already in their own sense.

In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm