I agree with T, that sometimes MLCers are so confused that they have no idea what they ate for breakfast, let alone what they did earlier this week. I know these things hurt your girls SA, and that your main concern is to protect them. Maybe you could
Great letter to your W by the way. Doesn't it make you feel a lot better to write to them? You should see some of the letters I write to my H and to his Tart too! Sometimes reasonable, sometimes scathing, sometimes begging. I used to keep them in my email draft box but have reason to believe that my H snoops and eavesdrops. Now I send them to my GF in the UK (the one I'm going to visit in Sept) and she laughs and corrects them
Hang in there SA, this is a long difficult road. Especially with the MLCer at home in our face, and with young children.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17