Hello! 20 year marriage teetering... (part IV)

[cbtdad]

AS, I just caught up in your thread. I don't know why, but I thought things were kind of dormant. I am so sorry to hear about your wifes diagnosis. I will be praying for her. I am also sorry to hear what you found out about OM.
That message she was sending about having the strength to leave rang so true in my sitch as well. W has admitted that having someone else treat her nicely have her the strength to finally pull the trigger.
I feel for you AS. That is a lot to deal with at once.
You are suck a strong person and a great example though for others. Thank you for all the communication help. I learned more from validating from you then any book I read.