T, when or if I get a D, I will bet that my H won't want a L because he won't want to spend the money. I know my H, he is a smart guy, drives a hard bargain and is never bested on a deal. He is very unemotional when it comes to making a deal. He'd sell just about anything if he got the right price. This ability has served us well through the years and it doesn't make him a good person or a bad person, it's just one of his traits.

So knowing that about my H, he can have a L or not.

I will have an attorney who I will pay out of my pocket, to keep things on track and to handle sticky details.

Protect yourself.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss