Tallula,

Three quick words in response to your last post to me; sorry, wow, and thank you.

MrBond,

My ignorance was that I thought al-anon was different than AA, and thus my wife's experience might be different than mine. This doesn't excuse me from taking your posts as a personal attack on me and I apologize for my response to you as well my bashing of AA.

SM34,

Thank you as well for your post. Humility is a problem that I know I have and actually have been consciously trying to work on, and I know that the majority of my problems (including the need to have more humility) is letting go of my pride.

All,

Once again, I apologize for bashing AA and basically being defensive about what you have posted in an attempt to help me.

Thank you and God bless


Me:44 W:42
D:15 D:12
M16/T24
4/8/13 had me served w/ divorce papers
8/12/13 answer date/court date for divorce
moved out 8/31/13
divorce finalized 1/23/14