I've had a few emotions in response to learning about the money from OW.
Humiliation, sadness, resignation.
But just mainly a sort of increased understanding of what is probably driving XH.
He rang me today to spew about my objection to his claimed income level on the child support application. He was outraged that i'd suggested that his current standard of living did not seem commensurate with an annual salary just a little above the unemployment benefit. Bollinger anyone?
He told me that "People only ever act out of self interest. Everyone does it." Wonder if that's what he whispers in OW's ear in romantic moments as well?
Each of the kids and i got a call on our mobiles from a debt collection agency looking for XH tonight - yet another unpaid debt that he has run up.
He is really in deep.
Interestingly, he rang me later and apologised for speaking so rudely to me. Hasn't done this for a long while. He is cycling like crazy (literally).
