I'm so glad you joined into this conversation, LTH. And here is the main statement I hope T will digest.........
"I don't see success in you working directly with her on an agreement because you want to do the right thing and she wants to do what she thinks is right for her (not you, the kids, the m). Trust me, I did this with my ex and my daughter paid the price. "
LTH, can you explain to T how a WAW, who loves her kids, can & will put her own needs first.....when she's fighting to get what's best for "her"?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
