Isn't it human nature to never be satisfied, always want more?
Sure, W talks to me... as little as possible much of the time.
Yes, she'll spend some time with me, but absolutely refuses to have fun while doing it. Going out with friends is WAY more fun. She even makes sure to not laugh at my jokes, even though others we are with are doing so.
While of course I'm glad there's no OM, I wonder if it's something she'll need to "do", to see what she's missing/not missing. Thoughts? Either way, she doesn't seem to be pursuing it.
Last night, while we were doing our weekly grocery shopping, W told me how GF backed out of going to the driving range with her this Friday after work, "because it might be too hot". W was clearly disappointed, and told GF "That's fine. It's not like I'm married to the outing".
Considering what we are going through now, her choice of words made me giggle and smile inside.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
