Hey Christine...boy you jumped just in time for your lockout. Is that a coincidence or what? I know I haven't followed you but we've passed each other on the BB.
Congrats!!! An ILY from H, what that must feel like.
Well, I think I'm feeling like you and reading from some of these experienced DBers, I think I'm in some what of the same boat so from my experience.
Don't push or pursue. Let H do some talking and sorting. Listen but don't judge. Validate but don't react. Let him lead the way and DB when you can. Take it slow.....
Good luck! Are you going to be here for a while or moving around??? Tootles..........