I completely agree with AS on this ^^^^^^^^^
Because my W even has said so in MC now. Turning point in us spending more time together and her doubting divorce is when she realized the changes I was making were for me and not to get her back. She told MC she could tell that I was going to be fine with or without her. Now we are moving to a new city together in 2 weeks and have never communicated better.
So realize that you really need to detach for yourself first an foremost T!


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it