I completely agree with AS on this ^^^^^^^^^ Because my W even has said so in MC now. Turning point in us spending more time together and her doubting divorce is when she realized the changes I was making were for me and not to get her back. She told MC she could tell that I was going to be fine with or without her. Now we are moving to a new city together in 2 weeks and have never communicated better. So realize that you really need to detach for yourself first an foremost T!
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it