Is this cake eating 14

[wishing, hoping]

(((NLW)))

Funny how things become apparent to us isnt it? The more we sit quietly the more is revealed.

The OW in my sitch has not given H that much money, but it is apparent blahs and her parents are the new source of my H's financial backup. Pretty pathetic isn't it?

Like yours, my H is in so deep I don't know how he could ever get out of it even if he wanted to.

I have come to accept that it is not my problem. I am leaving it in Gid's hand and living my life. Your H is in God's hands as well.

If the enabling codependent OWs in our sitches want to take care of these men-children, let them. They can have these broken men. Let them try to fix them. They will need all the help they can get.

WH