I agree with Talulla. You did totally bash AA. Even if you didn't get anything out of it, there are hundreds who have. And any way, if you had such a bad experience, it didn't make sense for you to ask if your spouse should go.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.