Has Christine graduated to piecing?

[ChristineE]

I have been posting over in newcomers but I don't know if I am piecing. How can I tell? Maybe I still need more time. I would love some input from others who have had a breakthrough on what to expect.

My bomb came on Nov 2. My H said that he was not interested in C or anythings else because he didn't want to be M any longer. There was an OW (EA I believe). H said that he was not attracted to me in any way at all and that maybe he never was. He said that I could have everything as long as I agreed to a quick D. He just wanted his clothes and he would start over without me. He waited until after the holidays and then announced that he would be moving out in Feb.

I have been Dbing my buns off and little by little I started seeing changes. Then, this weekend, I think that I had a breakthrough. We spent almost the entire day on Saturday engaged in fun playful intimate activities (upon his initiation). I was on cloud nine and I really was thinking that this was the turning point. Our conversations seemed normal again. He didn't stop himself every time he accidentally made reference to something in the future. It was as if a faery came and lifted all the bad energy.

Then today, he seemed distant. Nothing terrible. He was not cranky towards me, but everytime I flirted a little, he wouldn't bite. There was no indication that he wanted to pursue the previous day's activities again. I just acted as if and happy.

My questions to the more experienced DBers here are:

1. Is this typical? Do the WASs come forward and then have a knee jerk reaction?
2. How do I know that I am reading my sitch correctly?
3. Is this just part of the process or do I need to start from scratch?

Christine