I agree with Mr. Bond who articulated better than I did. The attraction and caveman theory stuff is a red herring and chasing after it is the long way around. Be who you want to be, be the best spouse you can be and attraction will take care of itself.
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
