This is BC39's personal thread and shouldn't be used as a debate forum.
BC39, IMHO I wouldn't worry about the "attraction" statement. Everyone has gotten that talk, both male and female. The women will tell you that it's one thing and the guys another. Either way, there are times when the WAS will say they aren't attracted to you or that you didn't do this or that or a long checklist of faults.
The problem lies within the WAS. You could look like Brad Pitt and they'll say they're not attracted. Yet you meet someone new and they will say you look very attractive. You can't analyze why a WAS says or does something because they don't really understand themselves.
However, those who do the work and try to understand what marriage is about, gets that passion and "attraction" back. That's what I've seen time and time again. But that's just my two cents.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
