He admitted to an EA today, with the woman named in the email I received yesterday from an anonymous person.

Obviously I've suspected this for some time.

It still hurts to realize all these months of him being completely disconnected from me and the kids and telling me he had nothing left to give...it's because he was giving it to her.

I have no details of when, how long, how involved, still going on, etc... And obviously I fear there may be a physical confession next...

But the positive in this is he has agreed to start couples counseling. So, we'll see what happens.