One month down, zero casualties

[Raine]

Hmm but the phone games are daily. I think the ow contact through texting is daily too. The only trigger I can think of of my doing on Saturday was posting a "I believe" comment to FB. He left soon after he saw that. This one is hard to see patterns.

Give me some examples of what it would look like? What things to try? I was of the mindset that not much of what I did mattered in this.

What is interesting to me is he did end it with all of them at one point. Then he went back in as f buddies. I do journal events, but I don't know what is pulling thing in his head. I can't see differences but maybe because I'm not doing much different? I was very aloof for a long time, but at snodderly, AJ, and T's advise (and following my heart), I started responding to more and saying yes to more, which meant he started inviting me to more and doing more at home.