I'm sorry you are in this situation but you have come to the right place.
Have you read DB and DR? If not, please buy them right away. I had to order on Amazon, the B&N by me only had DR.
Read the books and start to put the ideas into practice right away. You should follow Hopeful's advice and detach (yes, it is very hard), try to change what your H has complained about (if it doesn't mean being untrue to yourself) and GAL.
Hang in there, and post frequently to get off moderation.
The biggest help for me has been reading other people's stories and listening to all of the advice that is out there. It's not easy but it is worth it.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
