NLW, it is good that you are getting a clearer picture of you XH’s relationship with OW. He got himself into a mess that is for sure will be hard to get out of. But, having your money invested in his business and mortgaging the house didn’t stop him from walking away from M. Maybe one day he will not like himself for what he’s done.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state