Which is the truth?

[Mimi00]

Hi Forlovessake.... I'm close to your age, my H gives similar reasons for leaving that yours had... he doesn't feel loved, he's been unhappy, I've said mean things, threatened to leave our first year; then he also says it's him, his heart is changed, he can't love me how I deserve to be loved, I deserve better. *sigh*

Just focus on you and what you can do to make your self better. If he's said specific things about you that you agree that you need to change #1 for you and #2 for the benefit of the marriage, yes make those changes. I'm sure some of the wise posters will come in a give you great advice. Stay strong for yourself and for your daughter, things will get better as you continue learn & grow.