I am going to try and keep the house (I don't think she can afford it). After the market tanked, there is little to no equity. I would like to ask for full custody and want to allow the kids to stay in their rooms and by their friends.
This is going to be a real hard sell. But, a 50/50 arrangement will be so complicated and one of us would have to get a new place and fully furnish it for 3 kids. It would be very expensive.
The rest is pretty complicated. I did lay it all out and review it with the lawyer based on what my W had asked for in January. She thought it was pretty reasonable.