Linda, I think you did the right thing telling you S27 about your H’s condition. I hope your son will be more supportive of you. Does your H communicate with your sons at all? I don’t remember if you posted this already, did your sons ask him about his trip?
I agree you should not contact H about his arrival to Russia. It will only give him more freedom to cake eat again. I think there should be some consequences (punishment) for your H after going to this trip. But it is hard to figure out how to do it and at the same time have the road home paved smooth. I hope that you will know the answer by that time.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
