I know most LBS think this, but I don't know if she really does know. I mean, we haven't talked (text, email, phone, anything) since February and she can sometimes assume the worst of someone she is angry at.

I'm not overthinking and I'm not digging for proof about an affair. On one of our phone calls when I was talking about working it out she said "You'd never forgive me," and I told her that wasn't true. I'm just wondering what the DB community thinks of the adage about "once a cheater, always a cheater?"

Can somebody steer sandi2 here? I sure could use her input about the those three questions from yesterday.

PS: I have a job interview tomorrow for a position making 40% more than what I'm making now!