2old, did I read your earlier post correctly, your W has been in THREE failed marriages before yours? Wow. She sounds like a serial divorcer to me. I just don't know if someone like that is ever going to look back, she may be one of those people who is always trying to run from her problems not realizing the problems are within her and that they go with her wherever she runs.
All I can say is you've got to work on you and drop all your expectations. When you say things like "So, my waiting every two weeks before emailing her hasnt had any effect on things as yet" then it's pretty clear you have expectations. When you have expectations then it just leads to disappointment. Just focus on yourself, get back in touch with the guy you were before her. Become the strong, independent person you no doubt were back then. Good luck!
