How long did the coldness last trying? Were are at 2 and a half months tomorrow. And no I havent given up on R. I bought the DR book also. What really amazes me even now is how the days before she left everything was okay. I made here waffles as usual got her coffee, she even folded neatly my clothes and put them in dresser etc. The day before I had taken her to the airport she had to go to the doc for a kidney infection. I remember being there for her the whole time, opening car door sitting with her in waiting room etc etc. And now As I recall just prior to leaving for the airport she took our two cute little dogs into the room to say goodbye to them. We both love these dogs for many years. Even after dropping here at the airport while she was waiting for the boarding she called me and asked how I was and where I was at and other small talk. And now today 2 plus months later I hardly get 2 sentences out of her. Doesn't any of this sound a little odd? anybody? By the way tring, how much does a stone weigh?