No I haven't kept a journal like that. I haven't tried things really either. I've just been myself and I've just gotten out of the way as much as possible. I've followed his lead on reconnection except one thing I iniated. So I play a lot of phone games. He now has people over to the house about 3 times a week, at least for the past three weeks he has, so I am a part of it. I join in and he is concerned about me having a good time. I iniated chilling out with him some nights, rubbing his back, listening to a podcast or music. He lets me rub his back, snuggle against him. I feel like he needs that. It's all very innocent, but had a good convo with T2 about it and I feel it is good for connecting. He will drop any Convo with ow and put away his phone if I ask him if he wants to listen to a podcast. Always yes. He'll go do anything with me and wants to be invited unless he is really feeling low. He will let me touch him hug him etc, but he doesn't iniate unless he thinks I'm hurt. He is all over anything I post to fb immediately, unless it's a be positive quote like the "I believe in pink" by Audrey Hepburn.
Whatcha thinking Wonka? What kind of stuff would you suggest?
I'm thinking your H doesn't want to lose you. So any actions that you take that make it seem like you might not be there for him, will tend to draw him closer. This is one reason GAL helps and being mysterious helps.
