Looks like you posted two different identical threads, probably because you didn't realize you're on moderation. Stick to one thread and keep posting updates to it:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2367910#Post2367910

Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57