Originally Posted By: sandi2

I don't know that AS noticed that she never used the word "divorce", when she emailed about the two of you working things out. She only implied. But you didn't think she was referring to D, right? The minute AS said she was, you immediately assumed you had been wrong. (Another example of confusion.)


My apologies, I must have inferred that from all the talk about solicitors, division of the equity after the house sells and such.

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If you have not heard anymore from her by the time you get home from work Thursday, I would email her regarding getting the kids Friday. Keep it strictly about picking up the kids. Tell her that you want to see how the two of you can agree on a co-parenting/visitation schedule before you can go into "further" agreements. If she pulls the "playing dumb" card and has the nerve to ask what you mean, then tell her if she wants a D, you won't stand in her way. If she is trying to avoid lawyer expense and work out the "details", you want time to think it over. You want time to see how the visitation schedule will be agreed upon. (Btw, you may suggest that both of you wright it out, just so there won't be forgetting or confusing some of the dates.)


^^^This is great advice!^^^


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57